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The family and parent-child relationships are the nexus of Jewish education and the transmittal of Jewish values, traditions and norms. This section explores how families can draw from the source of Orthodox feminism to make feminist ideals meaningful in their daily lives, and realize their goals of raising Orthodox Jewish feminist children.

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Article

Biala, Tamar
"To Teach Tsni’ut with Tsni’ut: On Educating for Tsni`ut in National-Religious Schools," Biala, Tamar. Meorot, 7:2, September 2009, 1-13.

Synopsis:

This article presents a critique of standard responses to issues of tsni’uti through online 'ask the rabbi' websites, guidebooks and similar phenomena Instead, author offers guidelines for High school sex and family education curricula (developed by the author, along withRabbi Barukh Kehat, Rabbi Dr. Ariel Pickar, Dr. Hannah Kehat) for girls and boys, equally.  These guidelines are based on learned feminist religious perspective, and re-envisioning ts'niut as a positive ethical and spiritual value.



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Debow, Yocheved and Woloski-Wruble, Anna C.
"Life Values and Intimacy Education: Methods and Messages," Debow, Yocheved and Woloski-Wruble, Anna C.. Gender Relationships in Marriage and Out, ed. Blau, Rivkah, 2007, 243-292.

Synopsis: This is an essay about the development of a curriculum to provide comprehensive life values and intimacy education. The essay originated as a paper delivered during the Orthodox Forum in New York City in 2005.

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Grumet, Naomi Marmon
"Gender Differences in Messages about Sexuality," Grumet, Naomi Marmon. Jewish Educational Leadership, 6:3, Spring, 2008, 15-17.

Synopsis: Naomi Marmon Grumet interviewed men and women, and discovered striking differences in the implicit messages they receive regarding sexuality. For some interviewees, the message about sexuality received in high school did not prepare them for healthy marital sexual relationships.

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Kobrin, Jeffrey
"Review of Life Values and Intimacy Education: Health Education for the Jewish School by Yocheved Debow; Anna Woloski-Wruble, contributing editor," Kobrin, Jeffrey. Meorot 7:2, 7:2, September 2009, 1-7.

Synopsis:

A concise review of the curriculum “Life Values and Intimacy Education: Health Education for the Jewish School, developed by Yocheved Debow and Anna Woloski-Wruble.  The scope of the course extends far beyond mere “sex education” to include “life values,” only a portion of which relate to sexuality.  The curriculum has been field-tested at various schools in grade levels four through seven and adjusted, based on the varied reactions of boys and girls.  The reviewer deems this to be a finely tuned and tested, comprehensive curriculum on issues of life values, sexuality, and self-image.



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Ner-David, Haviva
"Parenting as a Religious Jewish Feminist," Ner-David, Haviva. Yentl's Revenge: The Next Wave of Jewish Feminism, Danya Ruttenberg Ed., 2001, 31-43.

Synopsis: This is a personal account by Haviva Ner-David of the how her day is structured in order to combine her role as a mother as well as a women and feminist.

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Novogroder, Michael
"Health and Sex Education in our Day School," Novogroder, Michael. Ten Da'at, Vol. 2 Issue, 1987, 18-19.

Synopsis: The author presents the sex education program that was introduced into Moriah Day School in Englewood, N.J. that was intended to present basic information from a halakhic point of view.

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Sztokman, Jacob
"Parents Speak - Shabbat and Gender in my Daughter's Gan," Sztokman, Jacob. Jewish Educational Leadership, 6:3, Spring, 2008.

Synopsis: Jacob Sztokman describes his experiences and the gender roles in his daughter's kindergarten's Shabbat party.

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Tannenbaum, Chana
"A Vision for Leadership," Tannenbaum, Chana. Jewish Educational Leadership, 6:3, Spring, 2008.

Synopsis: This article accompanies the article "Jewish women as 'Learning Different'" by the same author, a link for which can be found on this site. In this article, the author relates that in both Israeli and North American yeshiva day schools, adolescent females are often educated into self restraint under the guise of modesty, with their role being defined for them as important only as it relates to their family responsibilities. She states that in our changing world, we need to prepare a generation of women for leadership.

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Wolowesky, Joel; Bacon, Brenda
"Reader Response: Beruriah's Final Lesson," Wolowesky, Joel; Bacon, Brenda. Nashim: A Journal of Jewish Women's Studies & Gender Issues, 6, 2003, 205-208.

Synopsis:

According to a legend recorded by Rashi in his commentary on the Talmud (b. Avodah Zarah 18b), Beruriah succumbed to the seduction of one of the disciples of her husband, Rabbi Meir –at his request-- and when the affair was revealed, she strangled herself and Rabbi Meir fled in disgrace.  Joel Wolowelsky suggests that the purpose of Rashi's anecdote was “to reprimand Rabbi Meir for his outrageous behaviour.”  Brenda Bacon responds with evidence for how the story was understood as a justification not to allow women to study Talmud.




Audio

Berkowitz, Adena K. and Devorah Priss-Bloom
"Raising an Orthodox Feminist Child: An Interactive Dialogue with Mothers," Berkowitz, Adena K. and Devorah Priss-Bloom. JOFA 5th International Conference. 2004.

Synopsis: This session explores the issue of how mothers can teach their children to be sensitive to issues of gender as well as the influence rabbis, teachers and peers have on children's understanding of gender and gender roles.

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Fodiman Silverman, Ilana
"Initiating Conversation: Modeling Prayer for our Children," Fodiman Silverman, Ilana. JOFA 6th International Conference. 2007.

Synopsis: When teaching tefillah to children, how do we move beyond rote skill development? Can we encourage a child's own individual exploration of God and spirituality? How do we as parents, families and community leaders model our own concepts of and struggles with tefillah for our children? This session will examine current models of tefillah in synagogues, schools and homes, provide theoretical frameworks for teaching tefillah more effectively, and explore practical ideas to bring the prayer experiences of our youth to new heights.

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Halbertal, Tova Hartman and Bat Sheva Marcus
"How To Raise Feminist Children," Halbertal, Tova Hartman and Bat Sheva Marcus. JOFA One Day Conference, New York. 2001.

Synopsis: This session explores ways to convey Orthodox feminist values to our children including suggestions for how to communicate positive religious identities to our daughters and teaching our sons to be inclusive and sensitive.

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Lerea, Dov and Chaim Trachtman
"Raising an Orthodox Feminist Child: An Interactive Dialogue with Fathers," Lerea, Dov and Chaim Trachtman. JOFA 5th International Conference. 2004.

Synopsis: This session explores the issue of how fathers can teach their children to be sensitive to issues of gender as well as the influence rabbis, teachers and peers have on children's understanding of gender and gender roles.

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Schorr, Zipora
"A Non-feminist Approach to Raising Strong Jewish Women," Schorr, Zipora. Balitimore Regional Conference. 2004.

Synopsis: Can girls be strong and serious Jews in an Orthodox context? How does the Torah inform good decisions that make for good Jews? This session discusses how our heritage can inform our parenting to help us raise daughters as vibrant and productive members of the adult Jewish community.

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Stavisky, Rabbi Jeremy
"V'Shenantem L'Vanecha: Feminist Sensitive Education for Boys in Israel," Stavisky, Rabbi Jeremy. JOFA 6th International Conference. 2007.

Synopsis: While there has been much conversation about girls education and access to texts, the next generation's Orthodox woman does not exist in a vacuum: her compatibility with her husband and community require that the next generation's Orthodox man be fashioned in parallel. The current divergence is even more critical in Israel, where in many circles there is a growing movement toward fundamentalism and the segregation of the sexes. Recent events, including the gay parade and the war in Lebanon, have highlighted this division. Himmelfarb High School is one of the most acclaimed Modern Orthodox high schools for boys in Israel. Rabbi Jeremy Stavisky, the school's principal, will discuss how he educates the boys to a greater sensitivity to these and other issues.

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Book

Fader, Ayala
Mitzvah Girls – Bringing up the Next Generation of Hasidic Jews in Brooklyn. Fader, Ayala. Princeton University Press, 2009.

Synopsis:

Mitzvah Girls is an ethnographic study about how Hasidic Jewish girls are brought up in Brooklyn to become the women responsible for raising the next generation of non-liberal Orthodox Jews (haredim).  Ayala Feder gives us a fascinating view of the “other side”, examining language, gender, and attitudes to the body from infancy to adulthood in the context of homes, classrooms, and city streets.  She points to several examples in the lives of these young women that collapse conventional distinctions between the religious and the secular.

See David Wolpe's book review:  Mitzvah Girls (Book Review), Commentary Magazine Dec. 2009: http://www.commentarymagazine.com/viewarticle.cfm/mitzvah-girls--by-ayala-fader-15301?search=1



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Fuchs-Kreimer, Nancy
Parenting as a Spiritual Journey. Fuchs-Kreimer, Nancy. Jewish Lights, 1998.

Synopsis: A helpful guidebook for those seeking to re-envision family life that provides commentary about parenting as a transformative spiritual adventure.

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Gordis, Daniel
Becoming a Jewish Parent: How to Explore Spirituality and Tradition with your Children. Gordis, Daniel. Three Rivers Press, 2000.

Synopsis: Becoming a Jewish Parent offers guidance on topics as: using ritual to make space for feeling, talking about God when we have our doubts, incorporating girls into what has been a primarily male tradition, and becoming part of a community that supports your ideals.

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Hartman Halbertal, Tova
Appropriately Subversive: Modern Mothers in Traditional Religions. Hartman Halbertal, Tova. Harvard University Press, 2004.

Synopsis: This book investigates the conflicts faced by women balancing feminist views and Orthodox beliefs not only for themselves, but also for their daughters.

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Tenenbaum, Shelly; Davidman, Lynn
Feminist Perspectives on Jewish Studies (excerpt). Tenenbaum, Shelly; Davidman, Lynn. Yale University Press, 1996.

Synopsis:

This essay is reprinted, with permission, from Feminist Perspectives on Jewish Studies (Yale University Press, 1996), one of the first books to be concerned with the role of gender in the production of knowledge about Judaism in the academic world.  It evaluates the development of feminist scholarship in various fields within Jewish studies. Eminent scholars in biblical studies, rabbinics, theology, history, literature, sociology, anthropology, philosophy, and film studies assess the state of knowledge about women in each field, analyze how this knowledge has affected the mainstream of the discipline, and propose new questions and concepts to pursue.  To purchase the book: http://www.amazon.com/Feminist-Perspectives-Studies-Professor-Davidman/dp/0300068670



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To Raise a Jewish Child: A Guide for Parents. Basic Books, 1991.

Synopsis: In a society with so many distractions, how can American Jewish parents teach their children to know and appreciate what it means to be a Jew? This practical book provides help in finding and evaluating a Hebrew school, in dealing with secular peer pressure, and in planning observances in the home.

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